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March 29, 2008

I am so cool even when I'm not

The New York Times has pronounced my neighborhood cool: Sisters in Idiosyncrasy - New York Times.

Much the way Hollywood people have shuttled between Los Angeles and Manhattan for decades, or academics commute on the Acela between Morningside Heights and Cambridge, Mass., there is a young, earnest population that is beating a path between artsy, gentrifying neighborhoods in Brooklyn and their counterparts in the Bay Area, especially East Oakland and the area south of Market Street in San Francisco, or SoMa.

Richard Florida, the author of “The Rise of the Creative Class,” which argues that urban renewal is sparked by high concentrations of high-tech workers, artists, gay men and lesbians, ranked San Francisco No. 1 on his “creativity index” and New York City No. 9. Although Mr. Florida did not break out data for Brooklyn, “anecdotally it has a large concentration of creative people who have moved from Manhattan and elsewhere,” he wrote in an e-mail message. “I am confident if such data existed, Brooklyn would do very well.”

When I moved from Brooklyn to Oakland in 1993, I discovered the cities have much in common: cheaper, funkier, more working-class sister cities to the glamorous newsmaking metropoli across the water.

I've owned a house in East Oakland for nine years. At first I was dismayed to be so far from the hip neighborhoods of Berkeley and North Oakland where I'd lived in the 90s, but now I'm bemused to find out how hip my own area has become. The first hint was when all my young MFA colleagues expressed envy that we owned a house here - the way I envied my older artist friends who owned lofts and buildings on the Lower East Side and in Brooklyn when I was young. Then I noticed that my young, hip, bestselling author teacher lived in a Fruitvale loft not far from the taquerias, Spanish library and train station we frequent. This guy could afford to live anywhere but he chooses the funky neighborhood two miles due west of mine.



My neighborhood
doesn't feel all that hip, but it's a good place for writers, artists, musicians and others to nest. We can afford to own property and still live near coffee houses, organic produce, and independent bookstores. And yes, as the NY Times points out, we are close to San Francisco and Silicon Valley, where we can earn enough $$ to afford to live here. Express buses to SF stop four blocks from my house, and by car in light traffic it's 17 minutes to downtown. Mountain View and San Jose are farther but people do commute.

To prove to you how cool my neighborhood choices have been since my teens, here's the list:

Lower East Side (East 3d & Ave. A) 1981-1984
Brooklyn 1984-1988 and 1989-1993
Astoria Queens, 1988-89
Rockridge, Oakland, 1993-1996
Gourmet Ghetto, Berkeley 1996-1999
East Oakland (The Laurel District) 1999-present.

So if I decide to move somewhere else, I'll let you know, because clearly anybody with spare cash ought to buy there early.

March 27, 2008

Petition: Jews Remember the Nakba

Philip Weis alerts me to this: NO TIME TO CELEBRATE: Jews Remember the Nakba Petition : [ powered by iPetitions.com ].

Statement and Pledge of Action

This May, Israel will mark 60 years of statehood. In cities across the U.S. and Canada, major Jewish organizations will sponsor celebrations of "Israeli Independence Day." Meanwhile, Palestinians around the world will mourn 60 years since the Nakba - Arabic for "catastrophe" - of 1948. Sixty years ago, Zionist militias destroyed over 500 Palestinian villages and made more than 800,000 Palestinian people refugees in order to create a Jewish state in a land where the majority was not Jewish. This does not deserve to be celebrated.

Today the Palestinian Nakba continues. In order to maintain Israel's artificial Jewish majority, the Israeli government has continued campaigns of ongoing displacement, violence, and occupation. Inside of the 1948 borders of Israel, Palestinian citizens are denied equal rights to Jews under the law. Palestinians in Gaza, the West Bank, and East Jerusalem are denied access to land, water, healthcare, and other basic resources. Palestinians throughout historic Palestine experience international isolation, economic devastation aided by the erection of a 730-kilometer wall, and continued closures and invasions including the current horrific siege of Gaza. Today there are more than 6 million Palestinian refugees around the world, all of whom are denied their internationally recognized Right of Return to their homes and land. Meanwhile, we are invited to live on that same land simply because we are Jewish. We renounce this "right" to "return" given to us by Israeli law.

In addition to 60 years of occupation and dispossession, this anniversary marks decades of creative and powerful Palestinian resistance to Israel's violence. With this statement, we support this struggle, which is so often ignored or vilified in the U.S. media.

As Jews committed to justice, we imagine an "independence" that does not depend on an ethnically or religiously exclusive state or on the displacement of indigenous people. As North American Jews, we refuse to celebrate the ongoing colonization and dispossession of Palestinian lives and communities funded by U.S. foreign aid. There has never been Jewish consensus around Israel: not in 1897, not in 1948, and not today. We reject the notion that we have been chosen to displace others. We support Palestinian people's right to return, individually and collectively, to the homes they lost in 1948 and in the violent decades since then.

In response to these historical events and a call from Palestine to mark their significance, we refuse to celebrate "Israel 60." We will take action to make our shared position clear and visible. I

Click through to read the whole thing. I would be amazed, except that about four years ago my mother was invited to a local Jewish temple, Kehila in Oakland, to speak at their Israel Independence day observances. Mom was representing Rebuilding Homes at the time, a group that rebuilds Palestinian homes destroyed by Israel as part of non-violent resistance to the occupation. Mom came back and told me of the schoolchildren sitting and listening to the story of the Nakba and the displacement of the Palestinians, how Israel's celebration was also a disaster for these Arabs, and more. I was amazed then. Now I see that this really is a tide that is coming in to the USA.

March 26, 2008

Your Life Story in Six Words

From the New Yorker Say It All in Six Words.

Six words can tell a story. That’s a new book’s premise, anyway. “Not Quite What I Was Planning.” A compilation of teeny tiny memoirs.

My six-word story:

"Half-Arab wanderer settles in California."

Now the Arabs among my readers understand why my domain name is "Bedouina." My grandmother used to sing to me:

"Ya Leila'al-Badaweyah, rid as-salaam 'alayah, Lay-o-layla, ya Layla, ya Layla-al-Badaweyah." Or something like that.

Years later my New York psychiatrist said this was very significant. Sitteh gave me a song and a story: the Bedouin girl...

March 25, 2008

Arab-Jewish Peace Actions

American Goy is surprised to hear of the Israel Palestine Center for Research and Information, which I blogged in February 2004. I thought I'd review the last four years of this blog for other joint Arab-Jewish efforts:

Philip Weis reported on this Palestinian-Jewish protest at Gaza, 2008.

Palestinian-Jewish peace camp held yearly in California - one of several such camps around the nation.

September 2007: Islamic Society of North America Welcomes Jewish-Palestinian Dialogue.

The Sulha Peace Project (YouTube video) in Israel. Sulha is a traditional Arab mediation technique.

Jewish Voice for Peace sends a medical delegation to Palestine to work with partner groups including The Palestinian Medical Relief Society.

Jewish Voice for Peace's Olive Harvest Delegation goes to Palestine to help harvest olives with Palestinians under attack by violent Israeli settlers.

Some words from a Jewish teacher revered by Christians and Muslims alike.

IDF soldiers and Palestinian fighters form Combatants for Peace.

A Palestinian and Israeli, both professors, teach a joint history class in which they show each party's narrative side-by-side.

Palestinian teacher of Holocaust history.

List of projects for coexistence and Palestinian-Jewish peace from Answers.com. I know I have blogged a lot of these groups... where are my old posts? Neve Shalom, Givat Haviva. Heck, my parents went to a fundraiser for Givat Haviva back in the late 1980s, when Camryn Manheim's uncle, the late Bill Nuchow, invited them to NY for the shindig. The Answers.com list also includes peace initiatives put out by both sides.

Mayors make peace in Jerusalem - 50 from Israel and Palestine.

Two cool projects for writers and artists.

There's more - I've only gone back to 2005 and there's another year's worth of posts to sift.

American Goy, are you happy?

March 24, 2008

NY Gov. Paterson says he used cocaine

Update: I edited the below to tone down one of my biggest sins, self-righteous anger. Love is the answer, not scolding. End update.

Oh good grief: NY Gov. Paterson says he used cocaine - Yahoo! News.

It's a good thing I'm not running for office, because I grew up in the 70s and came of age in the 1980s. At Oberlin, and then on the Lower East Side. If I had to start confessing my indiscretions from age 13 to about 33, I would just issue one (lengthy) list and be done with it.

Folks. Get a grip. Politicians, and lawyers, and fishermen, and waitresses, and priests, ballerinas, public school teachers, Republicans, evangelical Christians, Hasidim and every other category of humanity include numerous persons, otherwise upstanding citizens, who have done it all. Drugs, sex, alcohol, debt, gambling, hysteria, emotional meltdowns in public, ridiculous internet flames, petty gossip, and refusing to mow the lawn. (OK that last one only matters in certain neighborhoods).

The press knows it. They're all smoking weed or downloading internet porn or sleeping around with their college buddies, and they went to college with all the politicians their age so they know what they did.

The politicians know it too. You KNOW they know it.

I'm not going to confess my own indiscretions however, because my mother reads this blog, and because it's not all that interesting. In fact in my younger days I was often mistaken for more of a libertine than I really was, although you never know with me so keep guessing.

Now that I am respectably married and the mother of two sons (and I live a particularly clean life these days, so don't get excited) people assume that it was always thus. Of course not. In my teens and twenties I considered it my right as an American to do what I damn well pleased within the boundaries of safety, and those boundaries did not always line up with what I'd want published on the front page of the New York Times.

It's nobody's business if the Governor of NY snorted coke in his 20s, I don't care about his marital problems, and I really don't want to know about the ex-Governor of New Jersey's sex life.

Can we stop with the silly stuff? We're grownups and I hope we aren't such a bunch of damn prigs. In fact, if you have never ever committed any sexual, alcoholic, drug-related, financial or other personal indiscretion, then go sit by somebody else, because you're too pure to hang out with the likes of me.

However: if a priggish crusading martinet goes around persecuting people for their lifestyle choices and/or indiscretions, then gets caught doing same, that's newsworthy. Hence Eliot Spitzer, and Larry Craig, and Jim Bakker, etc.

What we need is to repeal or dial down the penalties for drug use in this country, because people from every strata of society experiment with or use drugs regularly. The hypocrisy and futility of the "war on drugs" has been long been obvious to just about everybody. George Bush is known to have been a cokehead, but he never suffered a penalty and he is president of the US. Furthermore, our hypocrisy and infantile response to sexual matters is just -- moronic. Grow up, America. Stop judging others And when it comes to the sexual failings of others, remember what Jesus said about casting stones. Let's be compassionate toward our brothers and sisters, because we all have sins of our own. And let's focus on real problems that need real solutions.

March 23, 2008

Cheney says an independent Palestinian state is 'long overdue' - Los Angeles Times

Uh Huh: Cheney says an independent Palestinian state is 'long overdue' - Los Angeles Times.

Cheney says an independent Palestinian state is 'long overdue'


Yep. Just don't read the rest of his statement with all the caveats, backstepping and blame.

Happy Easter

Calla

To those of you celebrating this holiday, Happy Easter.

I went to my mother's church today for services; she takes my children there regularly and for once I joined them. Buena Vista United Methodist Church in Alameda, CA is a traditionally Japanese-American church that is now composed of all races; Reverend Michael Yoshi leads, and has been a spiritual mainstay for our family in our troubled times this past year. Many members of the church have been praying for me, and I got to meet and speak with people who love my mother, my late father, and my two sons.

It's a sunny, gorgeous spring day in California, cool and clear. The plum trees have leafed out and we're just waiting for the apple blossoms next.

My health- I am still in chemotherapy. I go every week, with a week off once a month. I'll know by early April if I have to keep getting chemo through May or longer, and I'll post the update then. The side effects are starting to get to me. I don't have the energy I did. However I am in decent shape and when I'm wearing wig, eyebrow pencil and lipstick, people don't know that I'm "sick" to look at me.

Weekly blood tests show that I am making progress in this battle.

Every day is a gift. Thanks to all my readers for dropping by.

March 21, 2008

Salata Baladi ســلطة بـلدي

I was fortunate to attend a screening of this film last night: Salata Baladi ســلطة بـلدي. It tells the story of an Egyptian family with Jewish, Christian and Muslim members; the elderly mother was born a Rosenthal in Cairo, became a Communist and married an Egyptian Muslim. Her relatives now live in Italy - and Israel; she has a grandson who is a Palestinian living in Egypt. The film opens with relatives telling stories of their ancestors from all around Europe and the Middle East, a marvelous mix of complex identities.

The filmmaker, Nadia Kamel of Cairo, explains:

The original inspiration for this film was simple enough: a love for my family's stories and a wish to share them. It was a story telling project. The energy that eventually propelled me into this adventure was more complicated. I saw my octogenarian mother aging and my 10-year-old nephew growing up under a shadow of satellite dishes and a rising clamor about some inevitable clash of civilizations. And a mixture of hope and fear overtook me.

My mother's stories, woven across the 20th century, confound any straightforward understanding of the historical events during which they were played out and are almost always an exception to the reductive homogeneity with which we are taught to view 'History.' In my family, religions and cultures get married when they appear to be divorcing in the global arena. In a world where my family's identities are being squeezed into irreconcilable positions, I needed to document my history before I became apologetic about it and the myth of its extinction was realized.

But as my mother told her stories, I discovered that the film could not simply be a reclaiming of our treasured past: we found ourselves colliding with pockets of denial and silence. Without confronting the taboos of our present, my mother's stories were reduced to self indulgence and nostalgia. And so my story telling film became a witness to a new story still in the making -- a story about my family's efforts to once more climb the wall that unjustly insists on separating our principles from our humanity.

A note on the title: A Dutch writer on the Salata Baladi blog translates the film's title to "Salad House." This is a literal translation of the film's French title, "Salade Maison", which I think seems to connote the "house salad" of a restaurant, the salad put together by the proprietors, as well as the salad of home.

However the Arabic title is "Salata Baladi", which means literally "Country Salad". This has the connotations of "rural" in Egypt, but also "very Egyptian" - "baladi" bread in Cairo is whole wheat, rustic, for "country" people to eat. Furthermore, to this Lebanese-American, "baladi" has the connotation of "my country" as in my nation, the nation to which I belong. And baladi means also my local area - my village or region. The title in Arabic has nationalist, class and geographic implications that are important, I believe, to the film's context and purpose.

The salad may be a melange of ingredients but it is a salad of the film-maker's country, Egypt. It is an Egyptian salad. Not just the house salad of some restaurant, or the salad of the film-maker's home (maison). The salad's mix of seemingly disparate ingredients reflects the cosmopolitan nature of Egypt, in the old days and even now.

One of the Israeli cousins in the film bestowed this word "cosmopolitan" upon Egypt, and when asked, said that he and his own countrymen were no longer cosmopolitan. "We are local patriots," he said with a laugh. I suppose his English did not extend to the antonym for cosmopolitan: "provincial."

Most of the relatives on either side of the Egyptian border have become provincials under pressure of decades of war. Meanwhile Mary (the elderly mother), her husband, their daughter the filmmaker, and her Palestinian and activist friends remain able to see the bigger, "cosmopolitan" picture.

These friends and the Kamel family are all leftists; the Kamels were Communists in fact. I grew up in a family that was very liberal, with occasional socialist leanings; there are branches of my family that are Phalangist, and the political split has caused hard feelings over the years, which we paper over because we love each other. Meanwhile, my parents associated with all manner of lefties, including some famous Communists, whose perspectives I engaged.

Although Communism always struck me as a futile, dead-end movement (sorry, comrades), and I never wanted to follow my various Communist friends along their path, I must say that it's the Communists of this world, Jews and Arabs, who keep the ideals of humanity alive. Perhaps the extreme idealism of Communists helps them maintain their larger perspective even when modern society goes insane and tries to divide itself into nations, civilizations, warring factions which must oppose each other.

If you probe the family backgrounds of my Jewish friends and relations here in America, (my husband is half-Jewish), you'll find that every last one of them has a Socialist or Communist ancestor somewhere. None of them are that far to the left now, but I think it's interesting that the Jews I associate with in America almost all have such family backgrounds.

And my Arab-American friends are also descended from lefties. I don't feel "sympatico" with Arab-American investment bankers much, even when they're my cousins whom I love; but some random Arab-American middle-aged hipster I meet in a pizzeria or a poetry reading will turn out to have a father who belonged to the secular pan-Arabist party favored by some of my lefty relatives.

I can't become a Communist any more than I could become an Evangelical Christian. But I understand and respect some of the core principles.

This film affected me so much that when I woke up at 3 a.m., a little while ago, I could not stop thinking about it. So I'm blogging, hoping to get it off my chest and go to bed. I have to go get more chemo in San Francisco six hours from now.

By the way, Salata Baladi will show in New York City and at Cornell University next week. Details:

March 28, 2008 @ 4:00 pm
Kevorkian Center 50 Washington Square South at 255 Sullivan Street
New York, NY 10012

March 30, 2008 @ 7:00 pm
Cornell University, New York
Cornell Cinema, Ithaca, New York

Update:
Joseph Massad criticizes Salata Baladi with a complex view of the family's larger historical context. He elaborates on the subtext I noticed - the Communist, nationalist, Socialist history of the Kamel family and of Egypt. He's not happy with the film's perspective. Read his comment - and still see the film.

March 19, 2008

My Sister, the Reluctant War Mom

I don't talk about this publicly out of respect for the privacy of others, but my sister-in-law has now written a moving piece in this week's San Francisco Bay Guardian about her son in the U.S. military:

The hardest thing I've ever done was take my son to the airport the day he deployed to Iraq.

Sarah Phelan is married to my brother Khalil, and her son and daughter have become members of my own family. When her son dropped out of college to join the Army National Guard, we worried with Sarah, and when he deployed to Iraq we wept. Sarah has been an anti-war activist for decades; she never accepted her son's choice to join the military. And she loves him profoundly.

Read her piece.

You can also follow Sarah's political reporting on San Francisco politics at the SF Guardian, both in the regular pages and on the Politics blog.

March 18, 2008

Obama: "A More Perfect Union"

Juan Cole has reprinted the text and a link to the complete video of Barack Obama's important speech: Informed Comment: Obama: "A More Perfect Union".

When I listen to him lay out the story, beginning with the Framers of the Constitution, I can hear the professor in him - the good professor, the engaging one everybody wants. He lays out history and political philosophy and social movements in clear terms that any high school student could understand. And once again he speaks to our higher values. You just have to read the speech and/or watch it on video. The SF Chronicle prints a photo of a grown man in the audience, listening with tears streaming down his face.

I hope to God this man becomes my president.

Look, he's not perfect. He throws out phrases intended to assuage the Islamophobes and Palestinian haters and these comments rankle me for their lack of nuance and dismissal of real issues. I know some who won't vote for him because of this. But I agree with almost everything he says - and I very much agree that we can perfect this union by applying the ideals of the Framers to more people and more issues.