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Deborah Madison: Vegetarian Cooking for Everyone
Indispensable - I use it all the time, and give it as presents to brides, young people starting out, etc. Not for vegetarians only - hence the title - a great resource for anybody wanting delicious recipes for vegetables, grains and legumes. Great sauces and salads, too.
Claudia Roden: Arabesque: A Taste of Morocco, Turkey, and Lebanon
Excellent in-depth cultural and social essays on three major cuisines; the recipes include the standards as well as unusual dishes, and the photographs are gorgeous. A great gift book - the Dove asked for and got it for Christmas.
God be with you, Leila. May your memories of him uplift and sustain you. You have my deepest sympathy.
Posted by: Barb Schaller | September 28, 2006 at 06:54 PM
Leila,
Your father sounds like (from his poetry and your posts) a very rare soul and I am sure he will be missed by many. I will have some prayers (Baha'i) for the passage of his beautiful spirit.
Joe Frantic
Posted by: joe frantic | September 28, 2006 at 08:01 PM
I am so terribly sorry for your loss.
I wish you strength and peace in this dark and terrible time.
May your father's memory be a blessing for you and your family, always.
Posted by: Stephen Frug | September 28, 2006 at 09:27 PM
I am sorry to read that. My deepest condolences. May he rest in peace. Amen.
Posted by: a h m a d | September 28, 2006 at 10:25 PM
we are from God, and we return to God.
may God bless your father in his rest.
may God give you and yours strength and courage during this time.
Posted by: islamoyankee | September 29, 2006 at 04:23 AM
Inna lillahi oua inna ilayhi raji'oun..
My deepest condolences
Posted by: Farah | September 29, 2006 at 04:38 AM
Farah, Islamoyankee, Ahmad, Stephen, Joe, and Barb - thank you all so much. My father would be so pleased to receive condolences from strangers representing the three religions of our people.
Posted by: Leila | September 29, 2006 at 04:48 AM
I'm glad that you were able to share his last moments. You have my sympathy!
Posted by: Cee | September 29, 2006 at 07:19 AM
My prayers are with you. Though I mourn your loss, I rejoice that I was able to meet your father and share a portion of his last days. If there are any regrets, it is not in his release, but rather in not knowing him in an earlier day.
Posted by: Randy | September 29, 2006 at 09:46 AM
May the Source of Peace bring you comfort, along with all who mourn, now and swiftly.
Posted by: Rachel | September 29, 2006 at 10:26 AM
Dear Leila,
I am so sorry to read about the loss of your father. I feel fortunate to have learned a little bit about him on your blog. You have my deepest sympathy.
Posted by: Louise | September 29, 2006 at 10:37 AM
I am Leila's uncle and Elias is my brother-in-law. We held an unforgettable family reunion in Elias's and Mary Edith's home in the week preceding his death. It was an amazing experience to see Elias gather up his strength to participate fully in the family festivities. And having done this, he just finally let go.
I love you, Elias.
Posted by: Edward Bentley | September 29, 2006 at 01:00 PM
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http://www.flickr.com/photos/arbayne/251928169/
Posted by: Leila | September 29, 2006 at 01:05 PM
To say I'm sorry to hear this would be an understatement. There are really no words adequate to the situation.
May your family have peace and comfort, and if there's anything I can do from across the country, please let me know.
Posted by: Jonathan Edelstein | September 29, 2006 at 01:34 PM
Leila, our sympathy and fond thoughts to you and your family. Your generosity, wit, and thoughtfulness -- not to mention your cooking -- are testament to your father's good life.
Posted by: Ron Sullivan | September 29, 2006 at 09:39 PM
I am very sorry. May he rest in peace and I hope that you and your family, especially your mother find solace and peace in your hearts after this loss.
Posted by: Moussa Bashir | September 30, 2006 at 08:21 AM
Leila,
I knew your mom in North Carolina. We shared some very important times in my life. I remember the wonderful hospitality in your home. Having gone to high school in Beirut, it was easy for me to recognize the Middle Eastern generosity in your family.
I do not know how to contact your mother, but please let her know that I grieve with you all.
Barbara Dua
Posted by: Barbara Dua | October 01, 2006 at 08:06 AM
Leila,
On behalf of me & my family in Detroit, I want to extend my condolences for your Dad .... to you, your mom Mary Edith and your brother Khalil. I was one of Dr. Abu Saba's students at North Carolina A&T Architectural Engineering. I will always love & respect him because he was one of the reasons we became good educated individuals. He opened his home and his heart to all of us. May he rest in Peace with our Lord and his Angels.
George Jamil Francis
Ford Motor Co.
Dearborn, Michigan
Posted by: George Jamil Jabbour Francis | October 02, 2006 at 08:10 AM
very very sorry for your loss
Posted by: c(h)ristine | October 02, 2006 at 07:17 PM
I hear this news with such a mixture of feelings. I hurt so for Mary Edith and all of your family. But I am thankful for Elias' release.
We double dated once or twice. They were at my wedding, and I at theirs. We have kept in contact over the years, but I have seen far too little of them both. But I did, and do, love them both.
Posted by: Betty Miller Morris | October 08, 2006 at 05:04 AM
I will miss your farther. I was a student at A&T and was learned so much from him.
Marcus
Posted by: Marcus Staley | October 31, 2006 at 07:32 AM
I was a member of the first group/class of students your father taught in his first year at NC A&T. We were immediately devoted to him. His loyalty, compassion, decipline and zest of life were free to all who dared draw from his bottomless well. He set a standard of performance for us and truely expected us to reach it by giving us all the leverage we needed. I will always love and honor him. God truely smiles on his spirit, in his death a "Son of Man" goes home.
Posted by: Ronald W. Gales | October 31, 2006 at 09:58 AM