We took our children to a local church last night for a child-friendly Christmas Eve service. I had never visited Fruitvale Presbyterian before, but I drive by its handsome old Neo-Spanish sanctuary at least twice a week on my rounds.
The service was held in a small chapel with the high, wood-beamed ceilings and stucco walls of the classic Spanish mission church. The beams were decorated with painted curlicues just barely visible in the candlelight. The pews had been pushed into rows along either wall, a most unusual set-up for a church, and a table full of unlit candlesticks and another small table with unlit Advent candles stood between the pews, close enough for the children to fondle the nativity scene strewn amidst the candlesticks.
At the front of the chapel, the pastor, a young man in open collar shirt, set up a laptop and a guitar; an even younger man with curly hair tuned an electric mandolin. Pastor Monte led us in a service that was at once casual and rich with ancient music and allusion. We sang Lo How a Rose, and Oh Come Emmanuel, songs I know almost by heart (and can even harmonize sometimes, without a hymnal). My children were enchanted; in the middle of the service they got to light Advent candles with the long brass candle-lighter, and then they were offered tambourines from a basket to accompany a couple of songs. At least a dozen children, from pre-adolescents to babies, attended along with parents, grandparents, and miscellaneous parishioners.
The best part of the service for my kids was the impromptu pageant. With no rehearsing, the children went off with the preacher's wife to be costumed in homemade robes. My Joseph got to be - Joseph, and emerged wearing two towels on his head, one twisted and tied like an agal. He hovered around the young Mary and her baby (doll) Jesus laid upon a footstool. Then the wise men appeared, among them my son Jacob, six, stern and completely in character as Wise Man #3. Dressed in a miniature choir robe, with towel on his head beneath a magnificent gold-jeweled (cloth) crown, he marched up and down the sanctuary, never looking at his parents once. There were also many tiny angels with wings, and a shepherd in a fleece jacket who smiled to show two brand new, half-grown front teeth. The pastor sat to one side and read the Gospel story, and the children appeared pretty much on cue, with subtle directing by Mrs. Pastor.
My children could not believe their luck at getting to be in a play, with costumes; they spent most of the rest of the evening talking about the drama rather than the impending orgy of presents and candy.
Afterwards we went to dinner at our favorite Indian restaurant close to my husband's childhood home. The moon, just past full, rose bright above the hills. Tomorrow (today - I have insomnia again, possible side effect of chemo) we will dine at my mother-in-law's, with my mom, her sister, and my husband's uncle and aunt. I could not ask for a happier holiday. (But I miss my father...)
Merry Christmas to everyone.