Stories can drive a nation to war. Look at the story Bush and Cheney sold us about Saddam Hussein and the weapons of mass destruction. So many Americans (and Europeans) believed the story that we went into Iraq and committed ourselves to enormous expense of life and treasure. All because of a story based on lies.
Stories can also move us to tears. I am in mourning for a young Brooklyn rabbi and his wife, because of the story of his toddler found weeping in Mumbai with blood stains on his baby pants. I have also been distressed this month over the suffering of the people of Gaza, again, because of the stories of the Israeli blockade, cutting off food and medical supplies, again.
Stories can also heal. Many of my Jewish-American friends from childhood and college days began to wake up and "get it" about the Palestinians, maybe years after we were in school together, because they remembered my stories of my experiences in Lebanon of the 1970s.
My friend Len Traubman works tirelessly to create communities where people from opposing sides of the great Middle East divide listen to each other. His motto: an enemy is someone whose story you do not know. Len and his wife Libby founded a Jewish-Palestinian dialogue group in their hometown many years ago which is ongoing; they also travel around the country and the world promoting dialogue through all manner of events, workshops, and retreats.
A few days ago he sent me one of his regular emails full of news about people talking, listening and building peace together. Here's an article about a movement to foster understanding between Jewish synagogues and Muslim mosques across the USA:
Weekend of Twinning.
A quote from an email Len received:
We (Beth Shir Sholom of Santa Monica)
were one of the 50 synagogues that “twinned” with a Mosque (the Islamic
Center of Southern California) this past weekend. It was a marvelous experience with people
from the Mosque invited to our Shabbat celebration on Friday (including
Muslim call to worship, Muslim prayers, Muslim teachings and a symbolic
“spiritual exchange” in which we took responsibility for the welfare of
each other’s children!).
On Sunday we were invited to the Islamic
Center for prayer (in which many Jews, including me, participated), a
meal and discussion about Islamophobia and anti-Semitism.
We intend to continue our relationship
with a Muslim-Jewish Chavurah, a multi-religious exchange program in our
Religious School, an exchange with the local Muslim preschool, a blog and
a musical event.
Len and Libby just spent several days in Houston, TX, leading dialogue events among Muslims, Christians and Jews in the area.
In church today I heard the pastor tell us to focus on what we want, not what we don't want. Focus on health. Focus on what's good about our lives, about the people around us, about others in our world.
Len and Libby Traubman, through their work, help us focus on the humanity of people we might think of as our enemies. This is the only way to resolve any of our problems. We need competent police to protect us from killers. But the vast majority of human beings are not killers, and in order for nations and neighborhoods to coexist in peace, we must cling to our humanity and remind ourselves of the humanity of others. Even of those we think are our enemies.
The cynical like to sneer at dialogue groups as ineffective. I myself sometimes wonder - what are we doing this for? But I ask you how effective guns and bombs have been in creating peace, justice, compassion and community in Israel, in Palestine, in Lebanon. The best weapons against the propaganda of the powerful are the stories of ordinary people, told to each other with respect and attention.
Thank you Len and Libby for helping so many share their stories in pursuit of reconciliation and justice.